off....... i go.........

this gal is running away to the poreign land ...... no post for sometime... will be back with a bang.. chooon!
will miss u all... tata

Switching roles!!!!

Sometimes the elder brother or sister takes the role of the parent in upbringing of the younger sibling...

Friends take the role of your sis/bro in life....

Teachers take the role of friends at times...

But the worst role is playing the role of the fairer sex :)

that too for gals....

the point is -
when guys dont behave as guys - then we gals have to behave like guys!

why ? -
simple - coz guys are not doing their duties :) as simple as that

--> u dont talk to us

--> u dont take the initiative

--> u look good or may be good in attitude but u dont know how to behave like a guy :)

how?
what are the things we do
--> first, we initiate the dialog first,

--> jus to continue the mokkai conversation with u, we wil have to laugh at all ur kadi jokes

-->we start getting all kinda bkgrd information abt u :) [ he he :) machiiiiii, enna sollre righta? ]

-->love failure ana , frndz kuda thannni adichitu second show poga arambichitom :P
( in english - booze with frndz and go for late night movie )

--> fill the vehicle with fuel and take a detour for about 10 kms to have a glimpse of u for 5 minz.

--> go ask him for a coffee first.

--> ask his number, give missed call, ask him to store our number.

--> here the head ache starts- pichakaran - ini than avanuku eppadi sms pannrathune kathukuda vendiyatha iruku! vanthu matuthu paru saniyan! :P

-->finish 2 packets of cigarettes by the time we wait for ur call.

--> wait the whole day to look at you when u cross our seat.

--> wait for the one mokkai fwd mail which u will send [ are u really this dumb? cant u even mail us?- ass*(#% ].

--> run outside to check if it is u whenever we hear bikes sound.

--> BEST OF THE LOT - u giving missed calls and we calling u ( Jesus - where is this world going to??? )

--> pay ur coffee bill.

guys - do ur duty - let us be gals.....

:) this post was on demand :)

Gals - pls feel free to add more....

How to be happy?

All of us have our share of bad hair day.... so i thought i will post someone the "yukthis" i handle to change my concave to convex :)

1. i know it is difficult, stop thinking about it - but rather thinking abt it, start thinking about something good. something which makes u smile instantly - for me the magic word is "surya" :P
say - ice cream, beach, the rain, god, playing with kids - be it anything and do it ample. coz in the immediate phase where u keep low, u will tend to think of thaat "bad thing" always all the time.

2. now if u dont know what is making u feel bad. do some exercise - believe me this is the best medicine , either u got to work out or u got to hog! whichever u prefer... stuff urself till u cant take down one more step or go to the gym and romance with the treadmill or fasten ur running shoes.

3."this might sound girlish!" - but if its a person who is making you feel sorry , find someone who hates that person and bitch about that person - try it and then let me know how much it worked. if u cant find someone who hates the person - pick ur best frnd - someone who wldnt judge u with ur act. what else are frndz for? :)

4.go out with ur gal frndz/hang out with ur guy frndz - have a "only guys/jus the galz" evening out, talk ... talk... talk .... laugh , laugh... laugh ... just take out everything in mind but be like u were in college - NOTHING CAN BEAT THIS.

5. ask a Hug from ur mom , dad , brother , sister/or just give one . - just your immediate blood relation. if you are married - hug your spouse. do not tell anything, jus silence and that hug will ease u to the max :)

6.And this helps when u r a little out of ur blue - think of the future , plan what u want to do, think of something u wanna achieve , dream of your life.... make it peaceful .

7. when u tend to think of the bad phase , immediately call up a frnd, ask a silly question, -call up someone whom u havnt talked in months, u might ve stories to hear or tell. Suppose , if that person is busy, dont get disheartened , try another number

8. cry out loud

9. get drunk and sleep for days , bunk office and watch tv , rent comedy movies and watch it.

10.think , that u need to be happy n refer from tips 1 to 9 .

WHAT MADE ME DO THIS POST - i was not in a good mood for sometime and ve jus jerked n pulled me out .
many of my frndz are going thro that "grey phase"

and i love myself and my frndz :) so jus thot wil help them aswell as me.....

coz i hate to take advise or give one.... so posting some tips... :P nice word to replace he he

PS: the pervious post on Badri was my 25th post in this blog

PSS:the next blog is going to be v interesting its abt ,
" when guys dont behave like guys, then gals have to behave like guys - what/ how/why "

Kaanavillai.......

The person in the above picture is missing since August 15, 2007.

Kaanamal pona andru ivar karupu nira tee shirt um neela nira jeans um anitu irunthar....

Konjam nut loose agi irukum ivarai.... kannu pidithal...

Therivika vendiya mugavari.....

Raz - www.heartnmindfights.blogspot.com or
Ocean - www.fallingforlove.blogspot.com

Kannupidithu tharupavarkaluku... thakka sanmanam thara padathu! :)

This post continues at

1) OCEAN - www.fallingforlove.blogspot.com
2) SCUDIE - www.scudie.net