important decisions!

are tough to take... and for once in my life i am thinking straight.

different experiences....

experience 1 :

a small boy aged around 7 comes back from school. he lives with his parents in a small town in south tamilnadu.

arun walks back home thinking about a bicycle his friend was riding the last evening. he was going to the temple with his father and saw his neighbor kid murugan learning ride the cycle. Arun's father noted the small boys yearn for the cycle.

when arun reached and to his joy found a new bicycle for him.

his father seeing his son's desire had fulfilled the same.


experience 2:

The chubby girl, aarthi, from city rides back home in her school van and was waiting to reach home because she knew her grandfather could have got her the cycle she had requested.

she saw the cycle even from the corner of the street. and jumped from her van with so much happiness to try her hands on her cycle.

when she reached her home, she went joyously to her dad to announce her new cycle. Inturn he gave the cycle to the girls cousin who is of the same age.

Aarthi who was just 9 then had her first heartbreak and since then has not touched any cycle.


experience 1 - sometime in 1988
experience 2 - sometime in 1990

i wil never forget these two stories...
PS:are they stories???

Best New Year Post!

Well people...

All of us ve posted a new year post...

a few resolutions...

a few expectations...

a few retrospections....

but the one which i rate number one is from OCEAN

pls read n enjoi.


ps: ocean, love u di!

How to be happy?

All of us have our share of bad hair day.... so i thought i will post someone the "yukthis" i handle to change my concave to convex :)

1. i know it is difficult, stop thinking about it - but rather thinking abt it, start thinking about something good. something which makes u smile instantly - for me the magic word is "surya" :P
say - ice cream, beach, the rain, god, playing with kids - be it anything and do it ample. coz in the immediate phase where u keep low, u will tend to think of thaat "bad thing" always all the time.

2. now if u dont know what is making u feel bad. do some exercise - believe me this is the best medicine , either u got to work out or u got to hog! whichever u prefer... stuff urself till u cant take down one more step or go to the gym and romance with the treadmill or fasten ur running shoes.

3."this might sound girlish!" - but if its a person who is making you feel sorry , find someone who hates that person and bitch about that person - try it and then let me know how much it worked. if u cant find someone who hates the person - pick ur best frnd - someone who wldnt judge u with ur act. what else are frndz for? :)

4.go out with ur gal frndz/hang out with ur guy frndz - have a "only guys/jus the galz" evening out, talk ... talk... talk .... laugh , laugh... laugh ... just take out everything in mind but be like u were in college - NOTHING CAN BEAT THIS.

5. ask a Hug from ur mom , dad , brother , sister/or just give one . - just your immediate blood relation. if you are married - hug your spouse. do not tell anything, jus silence and that hug will ease u to the max :)

6.And this helps when u r a little out of ur blue - think of the future , plan what u want to do, think of something u wanna achieve , dream of your life.... make it peaceful .

7. when u tend to think of the bad phase , immediately call up a frnd, ask a silly question, -call up someone whom u havnt talked in months, u might ve stories to hear or tell. Suppose , if that person is busy, dont get disheartened , try another number

8. cry out loud

9. get drunk and sleep for days , bunk office and watch tv , rent comedy movies and watch it.

10.think , that u need to be happy n refer from tips 1 to 9 .

WHAT MADE ME DO THIS POST - i was not in a good mood for sometime and ve jus jerked n pulled me out .
many of my frndz are going thro that "grey phase"

and i love myself and my frndz :) so jus thot wil help them aswell as me.....

coz i hate to take advise or give one.... so posting some tips... :P nice word to replace he he

PS: the pervious post on Badri was my 25th post in this blog

PSS:the next blog is going to be v interesting its abt ,
" when guys dont behave like guys, then gals have to behave like guys - what/ how/why "

What? When? Whom? About? Where! :)

What is the one time frame i wanna go back again?
--- > my first day of college, n live all over the 4 yrs again

Who is the one person i wish i had spent more time?
---> my mama

Who is the one person I wish i had not known at all?
---> i have more than one , less than 3

Who is the person whom i wanna carry always?
---> my mom, dad , bro, grandparents & one bagful of my frndz.

Who is the person i wanna leave back ?
---> he he ...... solla maten

What is the time period which I wanna avoid?
---> the time i had to go n get back to india from US

What is one thing I wish I can do?
---> I wish i can sing well

What is one thing I wish I cant do( something which I can)?
---> not forget things easily

What is the most dumbest thing I ve done?
---> jumping n breaking my leg in school :)

What is the most daring thing I ve ever done?
---> During college days many sutffs - ask me wil tell :P

What is the most stupidest thing I ve ever done?
---> Getting bulbs :) now thats in plural

What is the nicest thing I ve ever done?
---> There is a blind school in Adyar and one day when it was raining, a visually handicapped lady was going in that direction( so i thot she was going to that school , moreover I started seeing her often in the same route) she was drenched in the rain and her dress got transparent , she didnt realise it and few men started following her. It took all my courage to stop them, fight with them n drop the lady near by after helping her dry herself!

Whom I admire a lot?
---> My thatha, at the age of 75 he is still working full time in spite of his poor health.

Whom I hate?
---> I am not telling that name

The time I cried the most?
---> on the final yr cultral last day - during the high tea party.

The time I laugh the most?
---> whenever I with oli

What i like doing a lot?
---> I like to laugh a lot, I like to smile n be happy

My favourite hangout?
---> I like the beach, mannargudi veedu ( particularly the unjal:) )

I hate going to?
---> someone's house

What I hate doing?
--->I hate to see my mom cry and i hate smiling at people whom i hate :D

About my sleeping habit?
---> I cant sleep without disturbance :( I get up often :((

About my eating habit?
---> :) i am hungry all the time , i really dont know why

What i like to dress in?
---> cotton aint my favourite and I wear jeans most of the time
( i never let my mom wash my jeans :D )

I guess I ve a lot to talk on myself

this means - i talk a lot ;)